ohhh....as we all know that the day called friendship day is very important for friends....but as everything has be defined .....friendship day is defined as a day of expenditure for students and too much profit for the shopkeepers....now how is the question that arises....the thing is friendship band....ohh gosh!! what children do is that they buy the friendship bands to tie to their friends....and they feel that this is how they can show their love n affection for their friends....despite of being aware of the fact that how can a small thread....though its not a thread nowadays n costs too much....but how can a thread make friendship intense...but these days....theres always n outbreak of a craz....when ever it is summoned ....large number of people perform a particular action at that moment of time thinking that thats what makes them modernized....but now coming to the point, friendship cannot just be shown by tying a friendship belt.....friendship is something that comes from the inner heart....some children blindly tie the belts to each n evry person he or she knows, thinking that the others will feel that the person who ties a belt is a real friend...n thus the person will have many friends....
according to me, tying friendship belt means showing off everyone that u do hve many friends...now its a law.... what u do u get ....action n reaction r always equal....so this means the more friendship bands u give d more u get back....so den wht starts is comparison....a comparison of how many belts u hve got.....n too win this game of comparison more n more money r spent by the children n even some elders, in giving more belts so as to get more belts....
wht happens then is dat as evryone joins the race , d people who really knw how foolish all these things are, r not liked by some of their friends ....they feel that the guy is so stingy that he can't buy friendship bands worth some 15 to 20 rupees....so fearing that people would call a niggard....dat person too buys d bands n dey too tie the bends to all their friends...
now a vry serious problem occurs to the children whose economic situation is not as good as the others... their father works hard for even a ruppee....n that would be foolish of them to give the bands n dis make the children who r a bit poorer vry much sad...even their friends dnt support them... dey say that the mingy person shall be boycotted... he doesnt have the guts to buy a belt on a friendship day..
nxt somthin unexpected happens.....when these people miss to tie d bends to some people they know but not so much rally feel bad if they don't tie the band to them....so evryone knws hundreds of people n wht if they tie the bands to evryone...so then this situation becomes very hard to tackle with....
so there r too many disadvantages of friendship belts....isn't it so bizzare that the friendship bands known for creating intensive friendship can create wall between d people who r ur friends but not so goood ones....so dis is wht we shall start stop givin any bands on d friendship day.....n all the terrible consequences could be avoided....so lets make this occasion a day full of love, affection, truthfulness, faithfulness n d most important the friendliest among all the days...lets try to make friendship wid even our enemies n promise to be caring n kind to them.....
according to me, tying friendship belt means showing off everyone that u do hve many friends...now its a law.... what u do u get ....action n reaction r always equal....so this means the more friendship bands u give d more u get back....so den wht starts is comparison....a comparison of how many belts u hve got.....n too win this game of comparison more n more money r spent by the children n even some elders, in giving more belts so as to get more belts....
now a vry serious problem occurs to the children whose economic situation is not as good as the others... their father works hard for even a ruppee....n that would be foolish of them to give the bands n dis make the children who r a bit poorer vry much sad...even their friends dnt support them... dey say that the mingy person shall be boycotted... he doesnt have the guts to buy a belt on a friendship day..
nxt somthin unexpected happens.....when these people miss to tie d bends to some people they know but not so much rally feel bad if they don't tie the band to them....so evryone knws hundreds of people n wht if they tie the bands to evryone...so then this situation becomes very hard to tackle with....
so there r too many disadvantages of friendship belts....isn't it so bizzare that the friendship bands known for creating intensive friendship can create wall between d people who r ur friends but not so goood ones....so dis is wht we shall start stop givin any bands on d friendship day.....n all the terrible consequences could be avoided....so lets make this occasion a day full of love, affection, truthfulness, faithfulness n d most important the friendliest among all the days...lets try to make friendship wid even our enemies n promise to be caring n kind to them.....
jst hve a happy friendship day guys....
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ReplyDeleteBeautifully explained about the thin decorative and attractive band though available at affordable price but cost hard to some friends whose pockets are merely a show off to the modern designs as these need to be intact on the forefront near the hearts of the wearer. Who knows these are penniless and silently express an agony to say themselves helpless. But it doesn’t mean the friends loose a pinch of love which is stored into the cores of their hearts. Therefore never go for the external tie-ups and at the look of the friendship bands but look into the depth of the bondage of well wishes the friends carry for the partners. Let us forget the slips and scorns stinging time to time in our relationships, just forgive and forget to start a new life, fresh relations with an heartily acceptance of each others emotional give and take.
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